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Hosted by Julianna Whitlow & Deborah Merced
October 13th-16th 

Tickets starting at $2099 for early bird pricing

Tucked up in the Smoky Mountains of Tennessee and harnessing the reflective energy of being on a lake, we are pulling in the energies of Friday the 13th, a Solar Eclipse, and New Moon, to support you in fully releasing the old stories of who your were, for you to remember who you are.

I checked all the boxes, so why was I not happy.
The seven pillars to happiness are:
  • Rich relationships
  • Pursue your dream and goals
  • Service to others
  • Good health
  • Financial security
  • Happy family and friends
  • Enjoy what you do for a living
I spent my life trying to achieve what I had been told was happiness.​
Most of us have tried finding happiness, fulfillment, and even love outside of ourselves. It wasn't until I went within, that I began to uncover the true secret to happiness. 
I went on a journey of self-discovery. I figured this, I spent all this time trying to attain a state of being, to inevitably find myself coming up short, and there was one common denominator..... ME!! I was the one that was in every situation, trying all the new things, achieving the dreams and goals and not being satisfied, never having ENOUGH. This led me to deconstruct what I thought happiness was.
To me, HAPPINESS is:
  • Self-acceptance
  • Self-Love
  • Surrendering to the now
  • Living in the present
  • Meeting every relationship and opportunity through the eyes of the first experience. Not carrying old stories into them with me. 
How did I do this? By REMEMBERING who I am. Who I truly am. Mind, Body and Soul.
You see, to achieve happiness, joy, ecstasy, we have to first start with letting go of what we think happiness is, of who we think we are, of what we think we want, and replace this with the truth, YOUR TRUTH. But how do you know your truth?? Through remembrance by tapping into your soul memory of who you really are.
So here is where I invite you to do the same. To join us for a weekend of Remembrance where we support you in unveiling your truth and begin living the life you want. One filled with HAPPINESS, JOY, & ECSTACY by simply living in your purest form, honoring who you are!
You will leave this retreat with:
  • The most magical feeling of bursting open and seeing yourself for the first time
  • A deep understanding of yourself, where you are on your journey, and begin to answer the question "what do I really want in my life".
  • Practices and personal rituals to continue your remembrance journey 
  • Understanding of how to live a life in balance with mind, body, soul
  • Learn to live a life led by your soul
  • Immersion in the power of rituals and intentions where you learn to co-create with the energy of the universe around you. 
Plus you will:
  • Meet amazing creative and committed women from around the world who will become close friends and life champions.
  • Be nurtured with healthy delicious food, and plenty of downtime for walks by the lake, journaling, napping, or sitting on the deck admiring the mountainous views in conversation with other women who are seeking to answer the question "Who am I?"
  • You  will feel rejuvenated mind, body, and soul from the beautiful environment!
  • One on one time with Deb & Jewls to bring in the energies of the Universe to heal and guide you.
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 So there I was, 35 y.o, achieved the career goals I set out for with an amazing family, and on paper I had an amazing and beautiful life. So why wasn't I happy? Why did I have this deep feeling that something was missing? Yet no matter what I did, I could not fill this hole where pure happiness was meant to be. Hitting the reset button on our lives is probably the scariest thing one can do. Letting go of what you thought you were here on this planet to do, letting go of the career you spent over a decade building, leaving friends and family behind. All this, to follow the guidance that was being received to achieve happiness.


What I did not understand at the time was that happiness came from surrendering, happiness came from living in my truth no matter what, happiness came when I was able to simply be....... ME!

And it was not until I fully surrendered to being guided by the Universe, accept who I am, and remember and honor my truth, even the dark truth, that I was able to start experiencing happiness. 

This is what you will achieve when working with us:

  • Ability to live in A Clair Mindset- guided by the energies of the Earth even when you can not sense what is next.

  • Deep understanding of self-acceptance and self-love- by seeing yourself for who you really are for the first time

  • Understand your desires- deep knowledge of self and what you want, not just the surface level material 

  • Manifesting master- you see by living in your truth, remembering who you are, and understanding your desires, you are bale to work with the Universe clearly without the haze of 3D materials and achieve your deepest desires.

  • Souls memory- know how to access and listen to your ancient soul and what it is trying to communicate.

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You will leave this weekend with a deep understanding and acceptance who you are and where you want to be with next steps and support on the path forward. Not to mention new life long friendships and connections.

What the energies hold

  • Friday the 13th is a day to honor the cycles of creation, death and rebirth. Friday the 13th was originally considered a very powerful day. It was used to manifest, honor creativity and to celebrate beauty, wisdom and nourishment of the soul.​

  • October 14th New Moon  is a time where fresh starts are called for. We will be taking this energy and harness it to support you in opening a new path of remembrance and living as your most authentic self. 

  • October 14th Solar Eclipse. A solar eclipse occurs when the moon passes between the sun and the earth, blocking the sun’s rays and casting a shadow on earth. This only happens during a new moon, when the sun and moon are in alignment with each other. Eclipses don’t mess around. They speed up timelines and make what was inevitably happening occur much faster. Alternatively, they can completely change the course of your life, which can be jarring when you feel like you’re going in the right direction. For those who are looking to explore the depths of their subconscious, the solar eclipse of 2023 is the perfect opportunity to do so. By taking the time to meditate, journal, or simply explore their dreams during the eclipse, they can gain insights into their innermost thoughts and feelings.

  • Being on a lake can represent the transition of life, death and resurrection. Taking into consideration its reflecting power, it symbolizes a mirror for self-contemplation as well as a chance for revelation.

  • Being in the mountains is thought to contain divine inspiration, and it is the focus of pilgrimages of transcendence and spiritual elevation. It is a universal symbol of the nearness of God, as it surpasses ordinary humanity and extends toward the SKY and the heavens.

Costs & Accommodations

Payment includes

  • Ticket to attend the Retreat

  • 3 meals/day & snacks

  • All activities and events

  • 2 weeks of group integration support after the retreat

Payment does not cover transportation to and from the retreat.

Accommodations- Early Bird Pricing- SHARED ROOMS-  4 month payment plans available through  Deb and Jewls or at checkout select Klarna.​​

  • Twin Bunk-Bed $2099

  • Full Bunk-Bed $2199

  • Queen Bed $2299 


So join us, join us for a weekend of remembrance through practices such as:

  • Friday the 13th, Solar Eclipse, and New Moon Ceremonies

  • Journeying to the Akashic Records, soul home, and the dark soul to bring forward our truth

  • Blessings in the mountainous waters of Tennessee

  • Energy healing from a multi-lineage Reiki Master and Integrative Holistic & Energy Healing Practitioner

  • Activations and blockage removals to guide and support you in accessing your soul's memory to open your highest path. A retreat with other like-minded women all supporting, activating, and healing one another. 

This retreat is for women who are ready and eager to activate their highest timeline and are wanting to learn and love themselves unconditionally. For those who are ready to do the real work and discover and live in their truth by honoring their souls guidance. Women who want something different then this everyday numbness that is being sold as happiness. And most of all, this retreat is for women who are asking the question, "WHY AM I NOT HAPPY?"

The key to a life of connection, unconditional self-love, being in your soul purpose, and mastering your soul gifts is.... REMEMBERING WHO YOU ARE! We spend so much energy and time looking outside of ourselves, when the answers have always been within us, waiting to be revealed.

So join us for this life changing retreat and start the life that you want.

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Hi, I’m Debbie Merced.

I am a certified Spiritual Coach, Life Coach, and Reiki Master Teacher based in Southern California. My holistic approach brings clarity, direction, and positive support for my clients to live their best life. By identifying where growth is desired and holding accountability, clients will reach their highest goals and dreams.

Are you going through a stage in your life where you feel lost, disconnected, unmotivated, or conflicted? Are you feeling a lack and understanding of your true purpose? Or do you just want to upgrade your life to the next level? I am trained in helping people find themselves, find direction, and true happiness in all aspects of their lives.


Hi, I'm Jewls

Julianna Whitlow is a Spiritual Mentor, Death Priestess, and the CEO of A Clair Mindset, a lifestyle brand that helps women connect back to their natural psychic abilities and remember who they are on a soul level. Her signature process takes her clients through a series of exercises that strengthens their energetic senses and empowers them to trust their intuition, while also providing them with a sacred container so that they can essentially be reborn into a person who is connected, fulfilled, and aligned with their mystical side.


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